Parenting TANTRUMS – Responding to your child’s, Outgrowing your own 14 Oct 201814 Oct 2018 Parenting and yelling always seem to go together. Even when we are not yelling outwardly, in our hearts is a long angry or anguished or frustrated scream. How do we…
Audio… Part 3 – The Road To Constructive Conflict (Episode 9 of The Spirit of Marriage) 1 Jul 201724 May 2018
Audio… THE ROAD TO CONSTRUCTIVE CONFLICT (THE SPIRIT OF MARRIAGE EPISODE 7, PT 1) 23 May 201728 May 2017 Most regular human beings hate conflict, especially in marriage but that is one place where we can hardly escape it. Conflict can be constructive when it is well managed. Poorly…
Audio… WHAT YOUR SPOUSE REALLY NEEDS – The Spirit of Marriage 5.1 AND 5.2 9 Apr 2017 These needs drive our choices and behaviour; they can override our principles and goals. Knowing and understanding them makes a big difference in our marital relationship. Audio File 5.1 and…
Uncategorized The Power of Caring for Yourself (pt 8 of 8) 9 Mar 2019 THE POWER OF CARING FOR YOURSELF: When you learn to care for yourself, you can be a better parent. Parenting takes from you so give yourself something in return.
Uncategorized The Power of Shoes – Raising Healthy Children pt 7 of 8 9 Mar 2019 The parenting journey continues
Uncategorized The Power of Modelling – Raising Healthy Children pt 6 of 8 23 Feb 201923 Feb 2019 https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=600171720445762&id=100013588175362&sfnsn=mo Model the behaviour you want to see in your children. Your behavior will provide a template for their automatic behavior. Be the kind of person you want your children…
Uncategorized Going To Trump’s America 16 Feb 201916 Feb 2019 You can't change the world but you can change how you experience the world by choosing what to focus on. When you look at the world, do you see the…
Uncategorized A Stranger’s Gift 12 Feb 2019 It was a stop-over in Turkey. I had breakfast at an airport café and sat down at a table overlooking a concourse. I had some emails and WhatsApp messages to…
Uncategorized A FULL LIFE By Salatu Sule in memory of Aisha B.A. Lemu née Honey 19 Jan 201921 Jan 2019 A Full Life By Salatu Sule (In memory of Aisha Bridget-Anne Lemu née Honey: Oct 14 1940 – Jan 05 2019) I can’t remember the exact moment I met Hajia,…
General MEN AND WOMEN – Striving for justice 21 Oct 2018 Rethinking the struggle for justice. Justice has no gender-bias. MEN AND WOMEN - NOT AT WAR
Uncategorized Raising Healthy Children 1 of 8 10 Jul 2018 Raising children effectively is a hard job, whether you are a parent, educator or caregiver. It helps to have certain strategies handy. https://youtu.be/WQk4tiyqSfE
Uncategorized Custodians of The Earth- Be Muslim 30 May 2018 What are we on earth for? Is it just to grow up, get a job, get married, have kids then die? What do we stand for? What is our brand?…
Uncategorized The Road To Ramadan 24 May 2018 Making every fasting moment count depends on our paradigm. https://youtu.be/s_Cd_I3HxUo
Uncategorized FIGHTING SELF DOUBT 20 May 2018 FIGHTING SELF DOUBT Of all the voices that pull you down, the most crippling is the voice in your head. Until you try a thing, you can't really say whether…
Uncategorized Finding Happiness – Being Muslim 19 May 2018 Finding happiness is far simpler than we tend to think. Which of the favours of your Lord will you deny? https://youtu.be/Yct91LEu7HM
Uncategorized BE MUSLIM 1 – DO WHAT YOU CAN WITHIN YOUR SPACE https://youtu.be/9kSK1u9-Evs 5 May 2018 We often dream of accomplishing something good. Doing some great good. Being Muslim doesn't require some headline-making acts. Do whatever you can to give value within your space, no matter…
Audio… RESTORING & MAINTAINING THE SPIRIT OF MARRIAGE 8 Jul 2017 At various times throughout married life, we encounter conflict. Conflict strains the marriage so it's important that afterwards, we reconnect; we restore the spirit of marriage. At all times, easy…
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